If there is one saying that
encapsulates life in the twenty-first century I think it would have
to be the one that I hear most often from friends, neighbors and
family alike; That is: I'm too busy. I know of no one who does
not consider himself to be too busy. The other saying that goes with
being too busy usually has something to do with stress. Thus we
constantly hear people saying things like, “I was just too busy to
get that done.” or “I was so stressed out I just had to get away
for a few hours.” or “I'd really like to do that some day when
I'm not so busy.” My question is: What exactly does 'busy' or
'stressed out' mean and what is it that people are busy and stressed
out about?
When you say 'busy' I think of
homework. Some people call it 'busywork', some call it schoolwork,
but regardless of the name, the result is the same: namely, you work
long and hard at something obviously and honestly unimportant and
relatively meaningless. I always balked at the hours and hours of
time I spent answering redundant and sometimes demeaning questions at
the end of every chapter I read in school. I agonized over the whole
concept of keeping my mind occupied with useless 'busywork' while
real life was passing me by. When people say they are 'too busy' to
do something that they really want to do, I have to wonder how
important that 'busy-ness' really is.
So, let's say for instance that you
have a job. In that job, you are required to move pile A to pile B
all day long. Eventually, no matter how much money you are making,
your mind is going to end up screaming at you that the job itself is
pointless and redundant. Of course, then you have the other side of
that coin where the bills have to be paid and the food has to be
procured for the coming week. So you busily go about your
meaningless job, making money so you can survive. On top of that,
the job of moving pile A to pile B doesn't pay very well, so you have
to work many more hours than you would like so that when you finally
get home, you are either too tired, too stressed out or have been
'too busy' to do any real living.
I think it's a crying shame that this
is the way most people live. Are these people too busy surviving to
live a productive, happy life wherein they do the things they really
love to do? I believe that happiness comes from doing what you love
to do and having enough to live on as a result. Ideally, everyone
would do what he does best and loves to do, living productively until
the day he died and helping others to live better by producing
something of value to his neighbors. I believe that we don't have
to have mega-factories where thousands of people live out their busy
and stress-filled lives trying to get ahead in a never-ending battle
for survival. I think that people can work together, doing what they
do best, in an atmosphere of cooperation and on a small scale.
Anciently, small villages worked this way to a certain extent.
However, there always seemed to be someone who wanted to take control
of large groups of villages, states and even nations. These actions
always lead to disaster, tyranny and oppression. Everything in our
society can be improved, I believe, by bringing it home to a small
town level and allowing people to govern themselves.
